Should I move on?

Anonymous 08/25/2017. 7 answers
Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

My husband I got married in KS 2 years ago. His parents are immigrants from China, and very traditional. There have been constant conflicts mainly because of cultural differences. After a few months into our marriage, we got new jobs and moved to CA. However they would still call my husband just to complain about...

7 Answers


Coach Simon 04/25/2017.

His parents' logic is awry; if everyone was like this, nobody would get married! You need to remind your husband of his marriage vows to you. No doubt his parents witnessed what he promised you. He made no such promises to his parents; they made the choice to bring him into the world and their family and he owes them nothing.

f he looks at other women on dating sites, this rather suggests that he does not wish to stay married to you. Stop giving him money and start putting yourself first.


tammy 04/25/2017.

Why stay with him?


dolly 04/25/2017.

You have a very important decision to make, stay in your marriage or leave. Seems at this point your husband has chosen his family over you! You need to get a solid answer from him as to when exactly he plans to return to CA. If he is unable to provide you with the above then you should talk to him and let him know that you are seriously considering divorcing him. The idea of divorce may get him to thinking rationally about his marriage and his future with you. If you do not set parameters he will do nothing but follow his parents advice. He is a grown man and should be able to think for himself without feeling guilty. Be prepared! His culture and upbringing may supersede making a life with you! You need a decision from him in order to go on with your life.


Anonymous 04/25/2017.

He has been on dating sites!?!? Of course you divorce him!!!!

He thinks as an unemployed, sterile, mommy's boy he can do better?

This one is a no-brainer.


i + i 04/25/2017.

Yes, it sounds like you should move on.


lala 04/25/2017.

Ok ask this question to yourself

Can I live another 50 yrs like this ??

and answered this question Honestly

and then you have your answer


Fantom 04/25/2017.

divorce


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